Thankfulness Is Gratefulness

Have you ever felt in your life that you have reached a low point, have you ever felt neglected or rejected? How long did it take you to get out of that frame of mind?

Sometimes in order to change it takes changing your prospective of your life from negative to positive. It will change your whole mood around by being grateful and acknowledging it. It’s never a good thing to focus on all the negative that has come into your life, but instead focus on all your positive attributes, focus on the good things in your life that you have right now.

Take it a step further and dream of all the good you want to come into your life.

Meditate on all the good you want to come into your life. Dream of happy days instead of thinking of depressed situations. Get your mind focused on your daily goals to get you to your next level in life. You must stay on the grind and aim to be around like minded positive people so that you can continue to grow. All you have to do is make a decision and stick with it. God will guide you through every situation if you ask Him; you must trust the process.

Don’t Settle For Safe

In other words do not stay stuck in a situation because that’s all you know. You must do the work that it takes to shift your mindset. No, it is not easy and yes, everyday it will take you correcting your thought process but it can be done.


By definition, grateful is feeling or showing appreciation for something done or received. The definition of thankful is feeling pleased and relieved. Try to feel the emotions of being thankful, show appreciation to others and to God by being grateful. Even though you may not have everything you want, need, or desire at this moment gratitude will take you a long way.

1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NIV) – “Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Look around and give yourself some type of credit if you really think about where you were just a year ago, I am sure you have made some positive changes in life. If you have even took the time to read this blog or a book give yourself a pat on the back. If you have not made any positive changes…its okay that just means it is time to NOW build yourself up, build your faith up, and get to work!

Everyday we have work to do! Let’s do the work and stop playing, stop complaining, and stop nagging. We have work to do. You can do it!!

What am I grateful for you may ask?

This is one thing I am grateful for: my family.

I am grateful for my family coming together as one unit because I got to marry my bestfriend this year. I am thankful for the many revelations, trials, and errors that were made because they grew our bond stronger, they brought us closer together. We have learned a lot about each other and we have learned quite a bit from one another. We have each other backs for better or for worse. I am grateful for choosing LOVE.

Happiness is yours if you choose it.

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The Mommy Life 

Sitting in this space contemplating my next step. As everyone says my next move has got to be my best move, I have people that depend on me. 

You see it’s not about me anymore, it’s about my family wants, needs, and desires. What will move us to the next level? I’ve got to focus and that is my focus to make sure that I don’t fail, or at least never give up trying. There is no half stepping when it comes to getting the job done. 

In Young Jeezy voice: I put on for my FAMILY

I’ve got to show my girls what it’s like to live out your dreams, what it’s like to set goals and accomplish them, what it’s like to put others before yourself. No matter how many lose’s we have faced I have and will never give up on us. See I am a mother, a soon to be Wife, I am a goal getter, a dream chaser. I have to show them (my children) the light of life.

When life hits them I will always be there to pick up the pieces because that’s what mom’s do. Your children have to know that if nobody has their back that their mommy does. Promises are not meant to be broken so, it literally irritates me when a person makes promise after promise and never keep them. 

Mom’s make it all happen no matter what the cost

Life can throw you for a loop sometimes but it’s up to you to decide how to handle the outcome. Every situation may not come out as planned, but that’s okay, learn to adjust and stay focused.

Living a “mommy life” is all about sacrifices for your children because at the end of the day they depend on you the most. There is no half stepping when it comes to them. They are always top priority.

If a situation arises that you feel that you can’t handle, talk it out. Get all the details, gather your thoughts, sleep on it, and pray on it. The answer will come to you, ask for guidance throughout every situation.

God will see you through…remember God won’t put more on you than you can bare.

God Bless

Taynia A. Coleman

Bonding and Praying for Our Daughter’s

A mother is a daughter’s first best friend

One of the first and most important relationships we have in life is with our mother. She cares for you, nurtures you, protects you, and love you; unconditionally. From the womb, she comforts you, calms you, and maybe even sing to you. You feel every emotion that she feels while you’re still inside her womb because at this moment you are one. You are connected and although some relationships change you will always have a special connection with your mother.

Mother and daughter relationship is a special bond that spans the years. Through laughter, worry, smiles and tears. A sense of trust that can’t be broken, a depth of love sometimes unspoken. -Unknown

There are a lot of mother’s and daughter’s with an unbreakable bond, and then there are the not so good mother and daughter type of relationships. It’s sad to see the bond broken between a mother and daughter because the bond is so special. It makes a person wonder what could have caused this type of breakdown within their relationship.

The Reality of it is, is that there are a lot of mother’s that dislike their children because of their child’s father. In their eyes all they can see out of their child is the hurt pressed upon them from their child’s father. It’s not right, and it’s not fair to the child, this type of relationship can bring on psychological problems for both, mother and child. After so long the daughter/child starts to hate their mother for improperly loving them, which can and will bring on a lifetime of pain if no one seeks out help.

As a Mother of three girls myself, I pray for my children all the time. I pray that our relationships stay bonded and that they will always honor me as I honor my mother. I pray for their relationship as sister’s because sisters are important. I pray for us as a unit; as a family.

This is one of the most important relationships that I have because I know that in their hearts they will always love me and they will always cherish our bond. This does not mean that our relationship is perfect, but it is real and it is pure. For a mother to raise daughter’s I know first hand that it is not easy and it does get hard sometimes. Attitudes, pride, disrespect can creep in sometimes but you have to be able to stop that at the door so that the problem won’t escalate.

I made a vow to myself to always be by their side and to always guide them through this life.

No matter what the situation, it may be good or bad they will always have my support. It is always very important to talk to them on their level and to always give the best advice because they depend on you. Though it may not seem like it they are always watching, and listening to everything you say and do. I pray that I never misled them, or misguide them. I always ask God to protect them as any mother would do. I pray for our bond as mother and daughters because it is important to me.

Just a few tips to think about:

1. Always be a listening ear and an open ear to your child.

By showing them that you are trustworthy this will open doors for your relationship and they don’t be so reluctant to come and talk to you.

2. Never make them feel less important to you by never taking time out for them.

3. Check on them just to see how they are doing.

4. Love them wholeheartedly, never take your anger and frustrations out on them. They need you the most!

5. Remind them that they are beautiful, precious, and loved that way they won’t be so shocked when a boy tells them that. It will also give them confidence and it will start to build their self-worth.

6. Last but not least, remember that sometimes as young girls, they just need a hug and kiss to let them know they are adored. Hug your child and let them know everything is alright!

Remember how emotional you were as a girl? Learn to compromise and be understanding but please don’t get run over!

God Bless, Taynia

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