Thankfulness Is Gratefulness

Have you ever felt in your life that you have reached a low point, have you ever felt neglected or rejected? How long did it take you to get out of that frame of mind?

Sometimes in order to change it takes changing your prospective of your life from negative to positive. It will change your whole mood around by being grateful and acknowledging it. It’s never a good thing to focus on all the negative that has come into your life, but instead focus on all your positive attributes, focus on the good things in your life that you have right now.

Take it a step further and dream of all the good you want to come into your life.

Meditate on all the good you want to come into your life. Dream of happy days instead of thinking of depressed situations. Get your mind focused on your daily goals to get you to your next level in life. You must stay on the grind and aim to be around like minded positive people so that you can continue to grow. All you have to do is make a decision and stick with it. God will guide you through every situation if you ask Him; you must trust the process.

Don’t Settle For Safe

In other words do not stay stuck in a situation because that’s all you know. You must do the work that it takes to shift your mindset. No, it is not easy and yes, everyday it will take you correcting your thought process but it can be done.


By definition, grateful is feeling or showing appreciation for something done or received. The definition of thankful is feeling pleased and relieved. Try to feel the emotions of being thankful, show appreciation to others and to God by being grateful. Even though you may not have everything you want, need, or desire at this moment gratitude will take you a long way.

1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NIV) – “Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Look around and give yourself some type of credit if you really think about where you were just a year ago, I am sure you have made some positive changes in life. If you have even took the time to read this blog or a book give yourself a pat on the back. If you have not made any positive changes…its okay that just means it is time to NOW build yourself up, build your faith up, and get to work!

Everyday we have work to do! Let’s do the work and stop playing, stop complaining, and stop nagging. We have work to do. You can do it!!

What am I grateful for you may ask?

This is one thing I am grateful for: my family.

I am grateful for my family coming together as one unit because I got to marry my bestfriend this year. I am thankful for the many revelations, trials, and errors that were made because they grew our bond stronger, they brought us closer together. We have learned a lot about each other and we have learned quite a bit from one another. We have each other backs for better or for worse. I am grateful for choosing LOVE.

Happiness is yours if you choose it.

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Making a list and checking it twice! Your Next Relationship will be Your Best Relationship

Write the vision and make it plain

What do you really want out of life and/or a relationship; think about that for a moment. That has been ringing in my head for days now and let me tell you why. I remember just going through a divorce and a year and a half later I decided that I was ready for a “real” relationship. Knowing exactly what I didn’t want in a relationship I created a list of everything that I did want and desire within a relationship. I put down all my dislikes on one side and all my likes on the other side.

It took me some time to compile the list because it became very complex once I started thinking about my worth and values, the things you want, need, and desire is very important. Knowing everything I wanted and deserved I believed I could obtain it. This was my only strategy for gaining a better relationship. It is imperative that you understand that I also had to work on myself through this process, to make sure that I was really ready for a relationship.

Sometimes it is easier to point out what you want and don’t want in a man, but what about your flaws, why would a man want to deal with any of your baggage/drama. No one wants to deal with drama so maybe it’s time for you to do a soul search and take inventory of yourself.

You have to do the work, it is imperative that you do.

Never start off a new relationship without breaking soul ties from your previous relationship/s. Do not bring anything or anyone else from your past into this new relationship because eventually there will be a breakdown. If you are still stuck in a past relationship, or a past hurt then maybe right now is not the time for a new relationship. Get yourself together and make sure you are ready for a new future with a new person.

DO THE WORK

After you’ve taken time out and did a little soul searching, then you will be able to compile two lists. One of the things you want and don’t want inside of a relationship, and the other of good and bad traits you do or don’t want in a man.

Start by listing the characteristics that you are looking for within a man on one side. Then list the characteristics that you can live without on the other side. For instance; if you love a man with a sense of humor write that down. Write down all of your likes and wants on the left side, and on the left side write down all of the dislikes. If you’re always happy and optimistic, then you do not want a pessimistic person in your personal life especially a significant other. In this case, opposites does not attract because a pessimistic person will find the bad in every situation which will become very draining, frustrating, and exhausting to a positive person.

After you are done making the list hang it up on your mirror (inside your room), or on your bedroom wall just so that you can see it and read it often. This will allow you to speak what you want into existence several times a day.

Knowing what you want, knowing the person that you need to become, and working toward that dream should be your main focus in life. Nothing else even matters at this point. Just focus on living your best life and do the work in order to manifest it.

God Bless!

Taynia A. Coleman

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